PROPOSING

Before you propose, there are several things to consider before asking those four little words … "will you marry me?"

ANTHONY VEROMBECK
Editor WHGROOM

efore you propose, talk about the possibility of getting married. Make sure it's something that you both want, and make sure you agree on major issues such as children, religion, where you want to live, your work and how you want to live your life together.

The proposal itself should still be a surprise and a joyful event. Find a way that she won't be suspecting, unless she jumps the gun and asks you first!

Most brides want their proposal to include an engagement ring. Try to make sure the engagement ring is the right style. Look at rings together when walking past a store, or bring them up in conversation. Her mother or best friend may help you choose the ring.

Some brides-to-be want to create or design their own rings. Shop for the right jeweller, then let the process begin.

We've come a long way since women needed their father's permission; however, if she has parents, there is still something respectful about asking for her parents' blessing.

Choose a favourite place, if it's a restaurant (don't hide the ring in food, anything could happen to it), or a special time or date (holiday engagements like Christmas or Valentine's Day are popular and easy to remember), to ask her to marry you. It's a personal thing between the two of you. Don't do it in front of family or friends. It could be as simple as in your living room, or on a weekend away. It all depends on your personality. If you want to be creative with your proposal, be careful of things that could go wrong. This is a time for romance so you might tell her why you fell in love with her - or you may just leave it to four little words, "will you marry me?" If she says 'maybe', give her some time to consider the proposal. It's a lifetime together.

www.WeddingsHoneymoons.com | March 21, 2008