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SPECIAL SITUATIONS FOR DIFFERENT TYPES OF WEDDINGS


There are over 500,000 weddings in North America each year. Each one is different.



by Evelyn Pothier
This article includes information on interfaith weddings, getting married again, step-children in the wedding, when brides are pregnant, if you decide to elope and special event weddings.

Interfaith Weddings
Many houses of worship and cultural organizations have a special ministry for interfaith couples that offers premarital counselling. Often the problem isn't with the couple who are marrying. It could be that parents or family members who are having a problem with the union. Some faiths have set up guidelines for couples who are not of the same religion or belief. Often a house of worship will require that certain conditions be met or promises made before the ceremony is performed.

If one member of the couple does not practice a faith, that person might consider converting to the other's faith. If both of you want to have your faith's officiant at your wedding, there are some clergy and officiants who will perform the ceremony together.

If religion matters before you are married, then it will be the same after you are married. It is better to get the situation cleared up before you plan your wedding. Down the line, there are issues such as the raising of children, dealing with in-laws, customs, traditions and perhaps holiday celebrations. If an interfaith marriage is not a problem, then enjoy making the ceremony as special for each other as you can.

Second-time-around Weddings
You may be divorced or a widow/widower or a common-law couple who decides to officially tie the knot. Whichever, second marriages are on the rise. In general all the things you went through in planning your first wedding are the same - but you probably will have to be more "hands on" in planning and budgeting your second wedding.

If you are having written invitations, you'll want to word them appropriately to reflect your present situation. You will be choosing your dress, deciding who is going to escort you down the aisle [it could be your father, your groom, your son, a family member or friend] and doing your own planning for a reception or party. And don't forget the photographer, videographer, music, flowers and your wedding cake.

If either you or your groom have children, this special occasion is usually an emotional one for them. They might be part of your wedding party or, if you have all been living together before you are married, the event will probably be a family celebrating a special day.

Step-children Participating in the Wedding
Depending on the age of the children and the emotional situation they have been through with their parents, step-children can be a blessing or they can make your wedding plans miserable. Small children don't seem to have as much trouble adjusting to second-time marriages; teenagers do. The competition for attention is very real. If problems arise before the marriage, then they'll be there (and probably worse) after your marriage. To help ease situations, there are step-family support groups and family therapists.

As in every wedding, each child is different. If your step-children are part of your wedding party it is because you feel it is important to them and your new family. Your Best Man will be helpful as well as your Maid of Honor in case emotions run high on your wedding day. Remember, you can't force children to be part of a celebration; but you can't just leave them out, either. Use care - talk first - and be prepared for anything

The Pregnant Bride
If you want to get married before your baby arrives, then you know how many months you have to plan the wedding. Yours is a quick marriage, the first thing to do is to decide where you want to get married. If it is in a house of worship then be in touch with the clergy or officiant and let him know over the phone that you are pregnant. Don't be overly embarrassed - you're not the first.

If you became pregnant after you had set your wedding date and reception venue, then it is important to make sure your dress or gown will compliment your shape the month you are getting married. Let your designer or retailer know your condition and your due date when you select your outfit. There are several styles that will compliment the shape you will be in.

If you have any friends or family who are not comfortable with your condition or wedding plans do not invite them to be part of your wedding party or to be a guest at your wedding. There is enough emotional stress connected with weddings in general. You don't need to have more created for you.

There's usually no sense pretending otherwise. Your Maid of Honor can theme one of your showers as a bridal-baby shower. Then you get the best of both events.

Elopement
Traditionally an elopement is a secret marriage that is legally binding. Today, the word elopement has almost been replaced by the honeymoon wedding where couples go to another destination to get married on their holiday. Quite often, couples who elope do so for financial reasons or because of family resistance. Often they, or their parents, family or friends will have a reception when they return.

If you are planning to elope in your home town or city, make sure you follow the procedure in securing a marriage licence and make an appointment with an official who can marry you.

Las Vegas is known as one of the major places for elopement. But their licences do have rules and documentation requirements. If you are planning to have a destination wedding check out the section on the main menu of our website.

Special Event Weddings
Special event weddings offer romantic, practical solutions for couples on a tight schedule or budget, or those dealing with family difficulties. For some it is the perfect solution to wanting to do something different.

Check the papers and the Internet for malls, consumer shows or radio stations that run major contests for couples who will get married at their venue or facility (in return for publicity).

If you have entered your name in a "Wedding of the Year" contest, look over the rules and regulations carefully to make sure you haven't bought anything before you enter. If you are selected as the "lucky couple", it's a good idea to have the official letter of congratulations read by a lawyer to confirm what you'll receive by participating, and to know what your obligations are.

Usually a mall or public show is tied in with a radio station to make the promotion happen. The major gifts often include a gown, tuxedos, flowers, limousines and a reception. However, this publicity event doesn't always sit well with parents and relatives. Keep this in mind if you have an opportunity to enter such a contest like this. You might just win!


WeddingsHoneymoons.com | Special Weddings | July 11, 2010
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